New to matic ,experience is dreadful

im new to matic ,ive been farming on eth network ,have started to farm on matic but stopped ,the experience is dreadful ,when the network is busy the transactions says its gone through or i have sent 5 tokens pyr to binance and failed 3 times to send 5 tokens as a test because the project decided to reissue the token on matic ,it was best to pay the higher fee as i was pulling my hair out